Smashing Excuses: Why You Deserve a Boudoir Experience
Hey there, ladies!
Let’s talk about those sneaky excuses that tend to creep up whenever we think about stepping in front of the camera. Trust me, I know the feeling—I still get nervous sometimes, and I am often my own photographer. Even just today I admitted…I’m shaking in my boots thinking about talking live on camera, fully dressed, from my home in the VIP group on Facebook! Ha!
As women, we tend to have this knack for putting everyone else's needs before our own, right? The excuses start piling up: "I need to lose a few pounds," "I don’t have time," "I can’t justify spending on myself." I’m sure that sounds familiar.
Well, I’m writing today to let you know that you can do this, no matter the excuses. This is about YOU, and you deserve it.
“I’m too busy to spend that much time on myself."
Yep, I get it. Between work, family, and everything else, finding time for self-care can feel near impossible. But prioritizing yourself isn’t selfish—it’s necessary. Whether it’s simply savoring that morning cup of coffee or indulging in a weekly rock climbing session at the gym (my favorite, second to coffee), or a long bath now and then— those moments of self-care are what keep us grounded.
The day of your boudoir shoot is a self-care experience on another level. From the moment you walk into my studio, through getting pampered with professional hair and makeup, and all throughout your shoot— tailored to your values and vision— you’ll be reminded how incredible you are. Talk about the ultimate confidence boost and the perfect excuse to take a personal day from work!
“I’m not at my goal weight / I’m too old / I don’t fit the mold…”
First off, forget society's beauty standards. At The Photician, we celebrate every body, every size and every age. Boudoir is for every body. And Second, all the women you see in my work online— they’re not professional models. They are everyday women who decided to book their session, explore a side of themselves they may not have known before, and gift themselves with an experience that grew their self confidence and acceptance.
“I don’t feel very sexy/sensual anymore."
This is exactly why you need to book a boudoir session.
I know how you feel. After having kids, juggling the day to day responsibilities of parenting, keeping a house, going to work— I lost sight of my own sensuality, not to mention my sense of self. When I first decided to try photographing myself in a boudoir fashion, I was nervous and wasn’t sure what to even do because I didn’t feel sexy. However, as the shoot went on, I found myself enjoying the process. It was fun, and often funny, and I allowed myself to enjoy all aspects. Not long after, I booked a boudoir shoot with a photographer whose work I adored. Her direction and coaching made it even easier to relax and enjoy feeling beautiful.
I love that I get to hold space for you to have this self-love experience too! Take this opportunity to reconnect with that side of yourself in a safe, judgment-free zone. Here, you are free to explore and express as much of yourself as you want. This session is yours and meant to represent who you are and want to be. So if you want to rock some killer lingerie, let’s do it! Or if something more flirty and alluring is more your style - the answer is yes!
“I don’t have a partner to gift images to.”
Do some women gift some of their images to their romantic partners - absolutely. But I’m here to tell you, this is first and foremost for you. Boudoir is about more than just photographs. It’s about connecting with yourself, celebrating this body that is uniquely yours, finding self confidence and having fun.
A recent client wrote me after seeing her images and told me the following:
“I honestly never looked at myself as beautiful before. Seeing myself from this perspective, I’m now able to see how beautiful my body is. I had such an amazing experience with you, as you made me feel comfortable and secure taking such intimate photos.”
Sometimes all we need is to see ourselves from a new perspective. I’d love to help you feel the same!
“It’s an investment / I don’t have the funds right now.”
Yes, a boudoir shoot is an investment. An investment that pays dividends in building confidence, enabling self-discovery, reigniting your spark and so much more. Boudoir is a life changer, and you are worth it.
That being said, if you’re looking for “just something quick” or “an image or two” I may not be the portrait artist for you, and that’s okay too. I love that I offer a full experience with expertise in my artistry and only the best luxury printed products. Investing in yourself is priceless. I know you will adore and cherish the experience and resulting images ever more with each passing year.
I know this experience is an investment, and so I do offer payment plan options for those who request it. You can take advantage of our interest free in-house monthly payment plans to split your order into monthly auto-pay payments leading up to your session or after. If a payment plan brings an experience like this within your reach, absolutely ask me about your options during your design consultation.
I am excited to walk with you on this journey. You are so worth it!
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